Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: Provide Value And Figure Out Where Your Customer Loyalty Is Chapter 3: What People Need Chapter 4: Make Sure To Network Chapter 5: Take Good Care Of Your Customers Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Provide Value And Figure Out Where Your Customer Loyalty Is Synopsis With the variety of products and services available in the market place today being so vast, it is sometimes difficult to get the desired attention of the already greatly shrinking customer base. Being able to discern one’s position with regards to the customer loyalty ratio can be rather tricky if not virtually impossible sometimes. However thankfully there are some tried and true methods that can be used to achieve this goal. Where Is It To create the scenarios to further snag and keep the customers loyalty can be an ever stressful ongoing challenge. Thus there is a need to explore in-depth and seriously consider the needs and wants of the anticipated target audience to ensure continued success. Taking the extra measure to provide the target audience with the necessary assurance of supply value is perhaps a platform that should be given due consideration. Building relationships that promise the interest of the customer would be of foremost consideration is one way to create the supply value ratio. When a customer is made to feel important the loyalty factor which is necessary for repeat sales is evident. Randomly using methods that don’t include this vital and necessary element is both unwise and can be rather costly. As the lead generation tool can be used for almost any business foray, the customer base that can be garnered is indeed huge and thus ensuring the supply value angle is thoroughly covered within this tool is not only beneficial for both parties but also ensure the interest of the potential customer from the onset of the introduction. From the potential customer’s point of view the supply value should include various different initial vital information such as pricing, product quality and capabilities, availability, after sales services and any other potentially perceived useful information. Providing the potential targeted customer with such information will also help to plant the seed of confidence in the company and product being presented. Including other added value features is also another way to enhance the product or service, as this would also be perceived as supply value for the customer. Being able to retain a loyal customer base has its merits and understanding the customer sentiment is pivotal to achieving this loyalty factor. As loyal customers are a good indicator to a thriving and consistently successful business endeavor, taking the time to focus on understanding the level of each customer’s loyalty is both prudent and beneficial in the long term state. This understanding can help predict to a certain extent the ratio between the potentially loyal customer and those who may not ever become the desired loyal customer needed to keep the business a success. By making this discovery the company can then take the necessary action to try to prevent potential customers from just being one time users. Some things to seriously consider in the quest to understand the company’s position within the customer’s mindset would be as follows: • Making the effort to gather the required data to assess the potential customer’s reason for making the purchase or for showing an interest in the service or product offered. • Finding out if the customer would be willing or even happy to introduce the product or service to others. • Getting feedback of the level of satisfaction derived from using the product or the lack of said satisfaction. Armed with this information, there should also be a proactive counter action to address any negative feedback learnt. • With the information gained from the customers, there should be a concerted effort to make the necessary improvements to the products or services to further encourage the commitment on the part of the customer to stay loyal Chapter 3: What People Need Synopsis To a certain extent perceptions are made based on the knowledge garnered through specific means. However these means and methods may not always be reliable thus creating the possibility of ineffective handling of any problems or needs that may arise. For any product or service to become a success and sustain itself there is a definite advantage to understanding the target audience and their needs. With every venture undertaken, the most dominant feature desired would be to be able to impact the individual with what is being presented. This feature is a foremost element is the task of reaching the end customer’s attention successfully and beneficially. Thus every aspect of the foray should be carefully explored in order to provide the important information that would be able to cause the desired impact in the targeted audience lives. Have A Look The importance of understanding this process is to effectively eliminate any wastage of effort and resources on wrong perceptions made. Understanding the difference between the actual needs of the target audience and measuring it against the perceived needs that the seller has been given to understand will help the seller to redefine the product or service to focus on the afore mentioned fact. Sometimes however such information can be rather difficult to process as the customer themselves may not entirely know what they specifically need or want. This can be looked upon as an advantage on the part of the seller as it creates the opportunity for the seller to promote the product or service in a way that is attractive to the customer. Also when the customer’s needs are clearly understood, there can then be a clearer method used to garner the interest and possible successful sale. Advertising and information can be specifically designed to attract the customer based on the information learnt. Continuously adapting to the customer’s interests will allow for the success rates to be better in ensuring the loyalty factor. This in itself can contribute further in creating the customer’s faith in the product or service being offered; as it portrays the commitment levels the company is willing to take to ensure the customer stays happy. All these points are designed to address the customer’s needs and interests. Using the lead generation tool to create a lasting impact on people’s lives would without a doubt benefit both the sender and recipient without coming across as being badgering. When a product or service is being introduced to the target audience the idea is to create a lasting impression form the very onset of the introduction. If this important element is not achieved from the very beginning the rest of the battle to gain the interest and attention of the potential customer is going to be very hard indeed. Through research, identifying the elements that would create the desired impact on people’s lives is not only possible but prudent on the part of the business owner. Taking the trouble to provide information and even testimonials on the indented item that is being presented is perhaps among the best ways to garner the desired impact on the potential customer’s life. Using notable figures is often encouraged; the element of credibility of such choices should not be underestimated. Beside this, the design of the whole campaign to reach the attention of the potential customer should done in a fashion that leaves the lasting impression that creates the necessary impact to encourage the targeted customer to make a commitment towards an eventual purchase. The campaign should at all times ensure the impact made is of a positive nature as this will eventually translate to a level of loyalty that cannot be bought.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: Solving Issues Chapter 3: What About Personalities Chapter 4: Listening And Success Chapter 5: Being A Good Team Leader And Conversational Training Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Solving Issues Synopsis In the very competitive and cost conscious environments today, a lot of companies are beginning to realize that most matters can be successfully dealt with within the company if there are workable teams of problem solving expertise in place. By getting the most out of the resources available from the people already knowledgeable on the problem the company can problem solve more effectively and in a fraction of the time. Team work entails a lot of activities. There is decision making, problem solving, communication and a number of other activities. In this chapter, we look at the team building exercises that tackle different aspects of teamwork. • What are the different exercises that a team can participate in? • What do these exercises entail and how are they important? Relationships can’t be forced; people need to work on different things to make them work. This is the same thing with teamwork. People will not just automatically learn to communicate and trust each other. They have to practice on these skills Fixing It The successful companies realize that by getting the employees to work in teams, ongoing challenges, opportunities, improvements, re-engineering, product development and many other aspects can be better addressed and solutions found simply based on the oneness effect of the problem solving mindset. Being able to quickly deploy teams whenever there is a need, can only be done if the proper complimenting tools and training are constantly available. Some of the problem solving areas that should be covered within the exercise should be clearly defined. These may include clearly defined goals, indentifying and priority listing the barriers pertaining to the said goals, suitable development of solutions that are not only clever and cost effective but should also be workable. Not forgetting the cooperation of all involved, is another very important element that should not be overlooked as this one element can derail any problem solving exercise. When all this has been discussed and explored, the next step in the problem solving venture should be to ensure the proper execution of the plan takes place. Constant or periodic checks should be practiced to ensure the exercise is kept on track and the problems are effectively solved or at the very least some success is shown in understanding the problem and addressing it. All this is done with the end goal in mind to ensure its smooth and speedy attainment. With the necessary tools and techniques available, most teams can help to improve the effectiveness and sustainability of the company. Communication Exercises Needless to say, communication is a vital part of any given relationship. Two people can’t live and work together unless they can communicate with each other. The same theory applies to team, for a group to work together they must be able to effectively communicate with each other. Communication goes beyond sharing a common language. Two people may be English speakers but even without the language barrier, they may not be able to communicate with each other. There are so many fundamental principles that go into effective communication. This is why this type of exercises is normally vital in any given team. There are many types of communication exercises all geared to help team members communicate with each other effectively. One such exercise is the “blind man and guide”. In this exercise, two teammates are forced to work with each other. They need to retrieve a certain object within the vicinity. However, one teammate has to do the retrieval while blind folded. The other teammate will then give directions to help them make the retrieval. The only way they can do this is by working together and communicating. If the guide becomes frustrated and starts yelling at the “blind man” this will bring about confusion and hinder their progress. On the other hand,” the blind man” will not succeed if he decides not to listen to the “guide”. There are also communication exercises that involve interaction with all team members. You are supposed to mingle and bond with members and get to know them well. After this, you will be asked details about the team members. This normally tests listening skills and memory. Trust and Interdependence Exercises According to research, this is one of the most difficult exercises to administer. Naturally, people take time to build trust. Trying to get the team members to trust each other may be a hard task but still achievable. Trusting each other cements the relationship between the team. This helps them to work with each other well. It also makes an individual gain some sense of responsibility. There are different exercises that can be used to build trust and interdependence. For instance, there is one exercise whereby the team players line up in two rows. The people on the first row normally have their backs to the others on the second row. Now without turning back, they are required to fall back letting their guard down. They should be able to trust that the team member standing behind them with catch them. Problem Solving Exercises The whole concept of these exercises is to test the team’s problem solving skills. You give them a problem to solve and watch every step that they make towards solving it. You will also get to see how well they will work together in order to solve it. This is a vital exercise because it can influence the success of any team .A team that can’t handle the task may crumble and fall under pressure. On the other hand, a team that can do this well will be able to go through any difficulties and come out victorious at the end. Some of the problem solving exercises include, putting a big puzzle together. Every team member plays a role in ensuring that this is done. You may also present a problem to the team and just ask them to solve it. This can be anything that has to deal with their work. For instance, a customer care department team may be asked to play out a scene whereby there is an irritable customer threatening one of their staff members with violence. The staff member isn’t supposed to handle the situation alone. It is up to the team to come together with strategy to handle the current problem and put measures in place for handling similar issues in the future. Decision Making Exercises This is much similar to the problem solving exercises. It tests the team’s ability to make decisions together. In these exercises, the whole team is supposed to work together. It will not be upon the leader to come up with the next plan of action. These exercises are very important in any team. When a team makes good strong decisions together, they will be successful. However, a team that doesn’t involve all members in decision making may end up fostering resentment from the members who have been left out. It will also affect the quality of the decision since the best ones are the ones that are made by all members sharing ideas. On the other hand, total inability to make decisions will delay projects and can ultimately contribute to the failure of the whole team. In such exercises, a team may be presented with a problem and about five different solution alternatives. They have to discuss these alternatives and decide on the best option for the whole team. Each group member should contribute as to why they believe that is the best option. They should also get to a point of either compromise or total agreement.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: The Way You Think About Food Chapter 3: Honey And Whole Grains Chapter 4: Nuts And Lean Meat Chapter 5: The Benefits Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: The Way You Think About Food Synopsis The most crucial thing that you need to keep your health and fitness program alive - even more crucial than an instructor or a doctor - is your own motive. You have to be determined to scrutinize the situation. So, you're overweight and are looking at casting off a few pounds. No gym instructor from anyplace in the world will help you if you don’t take adequate measures to have the right diet and to stick to your routine exercise. Even if you're sick and are looking at treatment, no physician will help if you aren’t determined in following the treatment platform, whether it's taking the medication at the correct time or abstaining from some foods. Your Mindset We have strayed horribly with our eating habits thus far. Unless we take stock of the state of affairs and take matters in our own hands, matters are not going to get better. The number 1 thing is awareness. We have to learn what foods are correct for us and what are not. We have to go back to training and comprehend what the nutrients are that your body truly wants and in what amount. Then we have to build a dietary regimen for ourselves and our loved ones so that we eat healthier. We have to cut down on all the foods that are adverse - the sugars, the fats, the carbohydrates, we don’t truly want them - and incorporate foods that may boost our health. This does sound too preachy, I understand. But that's the only reprieve we have got. If we continue munching on Oreos, we're never going to get better. But there’s hope. Hope lies in the fact that there are a lot of foods out there that are simply as tasty as those awful junk foods but we don’t yet know about them. These are the foods that we don’t know about yet, we likely don’t care for them or as we don’t know how to fix them, but a healthy cookbook may help you in understanding assorted interesting ways to healthy cooking. Even with the same sort of diet you eat, you are able to conjure up some really delicious healthy dishes. Yes, it's all very much possible. You are able to modify your eating habits to a big extent, while at the same time attending to your palate. The fact is that the weight loss industry is responsible in a really significant way towards this downfall of the developed human race. They have to keep selling their Atkinses and Jenny Craigs and Zones and Medifasts and for that reason the media never tells you how we may in reality take things in your own hands. They show us glitzy before-after pictures of a person with a foot-long sub and then the same guy with 6 pack abs and tell us that the diet made that possible. However the fact is, if we were to get our head together, we may very easily do that too, without having to spend 1000s of dollars on those diets. And what do we have to do? 2 general things:- Control what we consume. Indulge in physical exertion. Now, is that too much to accomplish? Don’t we owe that to our body that has served us so well all these years? Don’t we owe that to ourselves and our loved ones? Chapter 3: Honey And Whole Grains Synopsis Over the years honey has been proven to the one sustaining power behind the energy circle. Benefiting the human body in various areas it is foremost still unrivaled in its energy producing entity. Honey is nature’s most natural energy booster. It also acts as an effective immunity system builder while providing the natural remedy to a host of varied ailments too. Energy is very important to the smooth flowing natural of a daily life cycle of any human being. Therefore finding energy sources that are both consistent and healthy are important to keeping fit and happy. A Good Pair The natural benefits of honey has been widely acknowledged and accepted. Besides its great taste, honey is also a natural source of carbohydrate, which is an energy maker for boosting performance, endurance and reducing levels of muscle fatigue. This is especially useful for athletes. The sugar content in the honey helps to play a role in preventing fatigue during exercise sessions and also during training sessions for sports enthusiast. These sugar make ups are divided into glucose and fructose and functions in different but complimenting ways. The glucose content in the honey is generally absorbed at a faster rate and gives off an immediate energy boost while the fructose works at a slower pace for a more sustainable and prolonged energy dispersement. When it comes to addressing blood sugar levels in the body system, honey has been known to help keep the levels fairly constant. As honey is a pleasant food product and it’s natural in its form, consuming it is not a very difficult exercise. People of all ages are generally quite willing to consume honey in any of its accompanying forms. It’s even popular with children. The energy produced from consuming a small amount of honey daily helps children cope with the physical strains of daily school activities and sports commitments. For the adults too consuming a daily small dose of honey can go a long way in keeping the energy levels at its best during a demanding day at work. Making sandwiches with honey accompanied with other fillings is one way of creating a pleasant snack. Applying honey on a freshly toasted slice of bread is also a welcome breakfast alternative. Adding honey to drinks instead of using sugar is definitely encouraged. Most people today want a quick fix for their energy boosting needs and this usually comes in the unhealthy forms of sports drinks, coffee and refined carbohydrates like sugar and while bread. Though these produce the desired heightened energy levels, it should be noted that this energy is fairly short lived and the tiredness that follows is usually more acutely felt. Therefore opting to consume some form of whole grains is not only a better alternative but is also much healthier. Whole grains provide the energy that comes in a more complex form which breaks down over a longer period of time. This then creates the platform for sustaining the energy levels for longer periods. Because of its more complex make up the whole grains come with a array of beneficial elements like minerals, vitamins, phytonutrients and fiber which are also rich in fiber. Adding the whole grain ingredients is any dish more often than not completes the flavor or enhances it altogether. Whole grains can the various forms such as wheat, oat, barley, maize, brown rice, faro, spelt, emmer, einkorn, rye, millet, buckwheat, and many more. These can then be made into various other products like whole wheat flour, whole wheat bread, whole wheat pasta, rolled oats or oat groats, triticale flour, popcorn and teff flour. The benefits of consuming whole grains consistently can help decrease the risk of heart disease, lower cholesterol levels protect against many types of cancer and assist in weight management. Whole grains should not be confused with its lesser and more refined “cousin”. Though refined grains have some benefits it is always better to opt for the whole grain alternatives

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: Why We Get Stressed Chapter 3: Coping And Simplifying Chapter 4: Get Moving Chapter 5: More Tips To Simplify Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Why We Get Stressed Synopsis The primary reasons of stress and depression in our societies are the following – Money, stress at work, input overload and relationship stress. The Causes The three primary reasons of stress and depression in our societies are the following: 1. Money troubles - Without any doubt; this is the top issue that consumes just about all of us at one stage or another in our lives. Your wants are stroked by alluring ads, easy accessibility and an unabashed display by other people. Where are the means to snatch up all that the heart desires! The consequence: rising debt, overdrawn charge cards, lawsuits and heartaches. 2. Stress at the your place of business - Your unhappy with your workplace conditions, and they're far from ideal. The competition is extremely tough, and expectations are high. Along with all of that, the price of living is rising day by day. Your workplace stress and anxiety are substantial grounds to be concerned. 3. Relationship stress - This is the type of tension that follows humans all over and it's always present within our life in one form or another. Nowadays a fast life and faster changing values and morals make it even harder to cope with day to day stress. Signs and Symptoms of Stress: Consequences on Your Health 1. Physical symptoms - Headache, back ache, dizziness, hypertension, frequent colds, rashes, itches, shaking, heartburn, etc. 2. Psychological symptoms - tension, anxiety, insomnia, difficulty in decision making, insecurities, lack of concentration, or a feeling that you're worthless. 3. Behavioral symptoms - socially withdrawing, unreasonable use of alcohol, taking drugs, gambling, lack of social interaction, ignoring appearance or ignoring whether or not you are prompt. While a few individuals can simply manage the demands directed at them, other people are more likely to break down under the pressure. What are the kinetics involved which grant one group to rally through emotional angst, while the other group sinks when stress enters their life? In seeking how stress and tension affects one’s welfare, we'll explore numerous avenues and techniques on how to relieve stress and tension. Furthermore, we'll talk about how to break away from the cycle of stress-induced conduct; and to establish that stress, while constantly present, can be contained and tackled. Stress & Resiliency: Individuals who come across stressful situations handle them in different ways. While some individuals can dismiss it and progress in life, untouched, other individuals become totally consumed by their symptoms. Resilience is the technique of adjustment in the presence of threats, and even the good news is that it can be learnt. Majority of the people show resilience in the face of stressors. Being resilient does not mean that you don't feel the stress. Pain, anxiety and emotional distress are the imperishable facts of life: It can't be avoided. The trick is to defeat it and find pleasure and happiness in life. You are able to learn Resilience: anybody can. There are a few crucial elements that go into building one a resilient individual. Following are some of those factors: Supportive relationships: It seems to be the most crucial factor: Having loving and supportive relationships assists you in building resilience in the face of hardships. Relationships that offer love, trust and encouragement boost your resilience. Taking critical action: It helps a good deal, if you set goals for yourself and take steps based around to a realistic plan. If you're used to just responding to the situations and are unable to look beyond the stressful position you face, it's definitely going to add stressors in your life. Thinking positively: A resilient individual searches for opportunities in difficulties. Anticipate a favorable result and take concrete steps to reach the sought after outcome. If you can't do anything, hope and pray for the positive result. Worrying and fussing wears, you out and reduces your fighting capability, besides making you boring, indecisive and unappealing. Effective communication: Being capable to communicate clearly, without concern and inhibition, being capable to voice your opinions appropriately, letting other people recognize your expectations- this is terribly crucial in being capable of surviving difficult situations. Containing and handling emotions: Being capable to know all your emotions, acknowledging when to tolerate stress and when to hold back. In essence, knowing yourself better is a requirement of being a resilient individual. Probabilities are there's a TV in your household you feel you can't live without. A lot of individuals flip on the TV daily without fail, and in a few cases watch hour after hour of programming. Switching off the TV may have quite a few advantages. There are ways to break loose from the television set and spend more time engaging in other, more productive, interests. Record your preferred shows. Rather than sitting through commercials, recording gives you the alternative to skip them all in all. Additionally, if the show is atrocious in the first place you are able to fast-forward to see if it's going to become any better, instead of having to sit and wait through the total show. Think to see if the shows are worth it, or if you're just looking on out of tedium. For one week, bring forward the self-control to give up viewing the shows that you watch on a regular basis. You will know at the end of the week which shows to go forward watching and which shows were not significant enough to watch over again. Chances are you will have at least one or two shows to do away with from your viewing schedule per week. Discover a fresh hobby. If there's something you are passionate about doing, there's a probability you would be willing to switch off the TV in favor of working on that hobby. Schedule dates with other people for times when you are normally watching TV. Whether it's having a fellowship night at home or going to a weekly dinner with acquaintances, you are less likely to be in front of the TV if there's someplace else to be and a commitment you've made to others. Think about enrolling in a work out class or a different type of course that will make sure to keep you out of the house. Get out and exercise. The advantages of heath, possible weight loss and being active far outbalance sitting in front of the TV. Get into a work out routine during the time when you'd commonly be watching television programs. Exercise may be rather addictive; you might wind up getting so involved with it that TV could become a remote second when it comes to picking out something to do. Watching too much TV may make you feel a little brain-dead says a new study and it may also take years off your life. The more time you spend watching television, the higher your risk of dying at an earlier age -- particularly from heart conditions, researchers found. The subject area followed 8,800 grownups with no history of heart condition for more than 6 years. Compared to those who watched less than 2 hours of television per day, inhabit who watched 4 hours or more were eighty percent more probable to die from heart conditions and forty-six percent more probable to die from any cause. Altogether, 284 individuals died during the study. Each extra hour spent in front of the television set expanded the risk of dying from heart conditions by eighteen percent and the total risk of death by eleven percent.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: Then And Now Chapter 3: Know The Differences Chapter 4: Mind Your Tongue Chapter 5: Thriving Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Then And Now Synopsis Very few people may be totally happy with their lives today. Surely, most lives today are shrouded by problems such as distrust among the partners, disagreements over slight issues, suspicions, ill will and even hatred. Relationships are continually souring all around us, and most times, we feel that nothing can be done about it. We resign ourselves by saying that it was meant to be that way. Life was completely different in the good old times, at least on the face of it. We weren’t so technologically advanced back then and maybe we gave more importance to our human relationships than we do today. Man needed woman and woman needed man more than they do today—that is a fact. The View The shapes our relationships are taking right now are downright deplorable. 1 in 2 couples are ending up in a breakup or a divorce. The levels of animosity are definitely rising, and this is certainly no good. Why is this happening? What is it that we are failing to see? Despite making a diehard commitment at the start of our relationship, in the heydays as you may call them, what happens that makes the relationship so drastically irreparable? Certainly, the problem lies in one of the partners or both. There are some very basic things that we are completely missing out on. We are not spending the time to realize that men and women are totally different kinds of beings, and that the only way to live successfully in harmony is by understanding each other completely. If you think that is too difficult to achieve, you need to think again. You need to see that the situation is not all that bleak as it seems. There is just one link in this chain, one single strand, that we are missing out on. If we simply see this one missing link and accept it, we will be able to do much better with our lives. That is what it is all about—mutual understanding and acceptance. That is what we need to learn. And, yes, in this chapter, we begin creating the journal of your relationships that will help save your rocking relationship boat. This is your reference point and your guide, the place where you find your fumbling relationship begin to take root once again. We see this very common scenario in the world around us today… maybe in our own lives too. It is someone’s wedding day. They look into each other’s eyes and vow to be together “until death do them part”. Standing in front of the marriage celebrant it is difficult to imagine how the two could ever not feel so in love as they do today. Yet 5, 10, 15 years later they are standing in front of a judge and this time they are told they are divorced. It is not exactly the fairy tale ending they had anticipated all those years ago. This scenario is a reality for over 50% of couples who marry. While the length of the relationship may be different among couples, and there are other reasons for the divorce, the reality is, over half of all marriages will end in divorce. The statistics are worse for remarriages. It is a gloomy picture, and perhaps you are feeling depressed wondering what hope your marriage or relationship has in the face of such statistics. The great thing about statistics is that there are good as well as bad statistics and other statistics reveal that if a couple can work through the problems in their relationship; they can potentially bond stronger than ever and go on to have an even better relationship. Why is all this happening? Ultimately, it is our perceptions of what makes a good relationship and our expectations of our partner, which creates the friction in marriage. As we learn to understand why we have these expectations and how to challenge with them, we can look at our relationships with new eyes and appreciate them for what they are, rather than for what they are not, With this knowledge, all relationships potentially can move forward. Our ability to relate to each other has evolved over our lifetime. We learn by observing the culture we grew up in and through our life experiences. As children, we watch our parents and we see how they relate with each other. We interact with our siblings and this contributes to our knowledge of how people in close relationships interact with each other. We learn from talking to our friends and often compare and contrast their experiences with our own. As we reflect on what shapes the way we interact with others and why it does this, we find the key to beginning the restoration of a successful relationship. Here are a couple of practical steps that may help the process. Try to do them together as a couple. Reflect on who you are and what has shaped your thoughts on life and relationships. Take a day or two to really think deeply about this and ask your partner the same questions. Compare their thoughts with yours. Use a journal to write down significant events in your relationship each day and what experiences caused them to occur and what your expectations were that caused that let down. These events go a long way in reinforcing your relationships. Even as you feel that you are drifting apart, if you just happen to read about these events in your journal, you will reminisce about those happy days you had together and perhaps you will have a change of heart. You will make an effort to patch up the relationship again. You will want to be together again to relive those happy days, and somewhere deep inside, you will get the confidence that the situation is not as bleak as it appears on the outside. Chances are that your partner is reconsidering as well. Since the love you started out with was quite strong and determined, your partner is not going to want to peter it down too. Sit together and think. Maybe a solution will emerge out of the entire morass. Maybe you will want to be together for life once again, just as you committed to each other during those marriage. But times have changed. We have become more mechanical, more materialistic. Our lives aren’t as simple as they were before. Our obligations of the day aren’t divided simply into work-time and family-time. Many more things vie for our attention each day. Still, the basic rules that were established back then are still quite prevalent. Gender roles were assigned to man and woman back then, all those centuries ago, and they still remain. Woman lib regardless, there are still gender roles that are prevalent. And this is more commonly seen when people are in a relationship. Until recently, humans traditionally mated for life with one and sometimes in polygamous societies a number of mates. Fifty years ago when people divorced, they often faced accusations and lost lifelong friendships. Today, it is likely that many of those in our circle of friends are divorced and may even have remarried with new partners. If we look back even further to the days when our ancestors were hunters and gatherers, we see a completely different situation than what is the reality for most couples today. History has shown us that our ancestors were a mainly hunting and gathering society. Men would go and hunt for food while women collected mainly seeds and berries around their home. They relied on each other for the provision of everything material, but for the most part, they did not receive a lot of direct emotional support from each other. Instead, men developed camaraderie with the men they hunted with, while the women spent most of the time with each other, helping look after children and prepare the food. Women usually found the emotional support they needed with the women they worked with each day. This pattern continued until the 20th century. Although the type of work that men and women undertook changed drastically, the gender roles remained much the same. The man would go out to work and the woman would stay at home. This scenario is not only typically true of a “western” culture; studies of most world cultures reveal similar trends. During the 20th century, traditional roles began to change. Perhaps the world wars created a need for women to work outside the home, but women started to take on traditionally male jobs. In some situations, women earned more money than men did. Some men even began to stay at home and look after the children. Traditional gender roles began to change, women lobbied for equal rights and in a few cases, men began choosing to stay home, care for their children and home while their wife worked. The reaction of men and women to this trend is food for countless books and audio talks on how this transition has affected the way men and women relate to each other. The common theme that appears to be emerging from all studies and research is that men will be men and women will be women. It appears that no matter how much society is evolving, some things remain the same. There is a consistency in the way men look at situations and deal with them and the way that women look at situations and deal with them. The gender specific needs of both men and women have changed little from the time of our ancestors and most problems arise when those needs neglected Controversial thoughts they may seem to be, but important to think about nonetheless. You and your partner may like to reflect on this thought in your journals. Knowing how to identify and meet your personal own needs is the first step in healing a broken relationship.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table Of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: The Basics Chapter 2: Look At Things Differently Chapter 3: What Are You Doing Now Chapter 4: Realizing The Issues Chapter 5: Getting More Productive Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Look At Things Differently Synopsis When you begin viewing your commitments from the viewpoint of somebody who's determined to succeed at their challenging dream – meaning, somebody who must utilize their time optimally, fresh solutions to formerly “unresolvable” quandaries frequently present themselves. The Way You See It Your aged parents may likely find somebody else to mow their lawn and pick up the groceries like a different family member, or the high school youngster down the block who requires a few extra bucks. Or, Your mate and kids may likely survive on takeout (or cook their own food!) A couple of nights a week. Or, Your acquaintance who needs a lot of support may find other people or even professionals, like a therapist to help furnish it. If you didn’t have a challenging dream that you were following on top of life’s average demands, then perhaps you could get away with mowing the lawn, fixing all the meals, and talking for hours daily with your friend. However when you own up to your challenging dream, you're basically declaring that you'll be really particular and self-directed in how you spend your time, as you have to reserve as much time as possible for your aspiration. This is in direct contrast to most individuals, who let other people including family, friends, neighbors, colleagues and corporations control their time for them. Nearly all ambitious dreamers, for example, have to reduce the time they spend on ho-hum household chores to as close as possible to zilch, so that they may utilize the reclaimed time and energy to work at their aspiration. All right, if you like gardening and it feeds your soul, then don’t quit. But washing? Yard work? Wiping up floors? Standing in line at the market? To the extent you’re able to find somebody else to do it. Send your wash out to be done, hire somebody to maintain the lawn (or get your mate or children to do it), purchase a floor mopping robot, and have your foodstuffs delivered. If you feel peculiar doing any of that, get over it: cutting down your housework burden is an investment in yourself. Likewise, it’s unrealistic to believe that you may spend your time the same way non-ambitious dreamers do and yet achieve your challenging dream. None of this ought to be taken to mean that you desert your loved ones or friends. It simply implies you invest your time judiciously. Even though you’re not cutting your parents’ lawn, for example, you may still be taking them to checkup appointments: that’s a much higher value activity that's likely a far better utilization of your time. And even though you’re not fixing home cooked dinners nightly, you may still do it a few times a week. And even if you’re not going to be able to speak to your friend for hours daily, you may still be available to her in times of true need. It may be scary to alter the terms of our interaction with somebody, particularly if we’ve been interacting with them a particular way for years. (Double particularly if we’ve been taught to subordinate our needs to other people, as many women particularly are.) Individuals frequently respond badly when we tell them we can’t do as much for them, or spend as much time with them, as we have been. Frequently, however, if we take the time to share our state of affairs, aspirations and needs, they're surprisingly empathic and eager to help. So don’t simply tell individuals you'll be less available tell them why, and invite their support and help. If, after you share your story, a few individuals still aren’t empathic, or are actively unfriendly, that’s a sorry issue to have, but a typical one. That’s why successful individuals learn to say “no”, and also to distance themselves from unsupportive or toxic individuals, even if they happen to be related to them. Whatever time you choose to spend helping other people you ought to build into your weekly or monthly schedule. You ought to likewise build in time both for your own relaxation and for unintentional events and emergencies. Many individuals think time management is about attempting to stuff as much as possible into one’s schedule, but it’s not; it’s regarding clearing as much as conceivable off your schedule so you may work, at a comfortable, non-stressful pace, on your crucial goals. To summarize: whatever bumps you off your course that isn't an unpreventable emergency is procrastination, regardless how crucial it might seem at the time. Second-rate time management - - does the net entrepreneur ever believe that he has poor time management? Or, does he automatically believe that he's managing his time efficiently and effectively merely because he's a business owner? Either way, he has to cautiously guard against wasting time or not maximizing the full utilization of the flexible time that work at home entrepreneurs have. Without a self-asserting effort, he may be doomed for incompleteness or merely business failure. Frequently, procrastination is the primary perpetrator of poor time management, but is frequently not taken as seriously as of the perceived “creativity” in waiting. Put differently, net entrepreneurs frequently have trepidation about moving too fast on business projects or making decisions too rapidly. As noble as this might sound, it may often have the opposite effect and cause the work from home individual to move too slowly, move too fast or do nothing at all. Good time management may help. Failing to plan in any home business isn't different from failing to plan in any other sort of business. There must be a business model formulated, a marketing strategy followed out and a plan of action to accomplish goals for the business. This all ties into the ability to design, effectively handle time and resources and discovering what works for the business. Planning daily might seem like a lot of work to do but in actual truth when it becomes a habit, it gets to be second nature. Studies show that it takes an average of twenty-one times for something to get to be a habit. When something does get to be a habit, it's much simpler to maintain than if it's new or from the beginning. Home entrepreneurs have total flexibility and convenience in their occupations. There's no one standing over them, ordering their day, telling them what to accomplish, when to accomplish it, how to accomplish it, and so forth. With all of this freedom, an undisciplined individual won't understand how to effectively manage their time or when to say no to particular projects or fresh business. For a lot of entrepreneurs, they put off their work duties or obligations for wide-ranging reasons. Doing this may cause unbelievable tension for the entrepreneur and cause them to handle or work in a crises mode. Working in that way may produce additional issues that may become hard to solve or manage. There are errors made, uncompleted projects, missed goals, second-rate work quality and even second-rate business results.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: Personal Dream Basics Chapter 2: What Are Your True Aspirations? Chapter 3: Be Accountable Chapter 4: Learn To Accept Chapter 5: Learn To Manifest Chapter 6: Take Credit for Your Successes Chapter 7: Take a Chance Chapter 8: Believe In Yourself Wrapping Up Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: What Are Your True Aspirations? Some psychotherapists claimed that personal dreams usually represent all the desires and aspirations of a person in life. Personal dreams can be used by people to determine the current status of their emotional health as the time goes by. Those people who always enjoy wonderful personal dreams at night while sleeping have excellent emotional health. In other words, those people who are always contented and happy in their lives will always be able to enjoy wonderful dreams while sleeping. It is a fact that stress and sickness are two complicated factors that can convert wonderful dreams into nightmares. And nightmares can really cause fear and sadness in the daily living of a person when not managed properly. Wonderful personal dreams can be used by people as their inspiration in life. Such dreams usually contain inspiring situations and memories that can really encourage a person to stay strong and motivated forever. People can easily understand and determine their real aspirations in life with the use of the situations and imaginary events that are present in their daily set of personal dreams. Personal dreams have varied meanings and messages that people can use as their main guide in improving the quality of their lives. Dreams are comparable to stories and movies. Such things also contain lessons and guiding principles that people can use to prevent failures and mistakes in their lives. Personal dreams can also help people to determine the type of job or business that will fit to their interests and desires in life. Therefore, personal dreams simply help people make their future and destiny more satisfying and totally free from stressful moments in the end. Personal dreams can help a person to experience the greatest benefits that contentment in life can provide. Aspirations are Embodied by Personal Dreams Many people might disagree with the fact that personal dreams embody the real aspirations or desires of a person in life. But such claim is a real fact which can never be nullified by any type of experiment and scientific study. Dreams represent all the goals and special things that a person wants to achieve from time to time while living in this world. Such things can make all things more interesting and motivating for all people in this world when managed and analyzed properly. But personal dreams can also destroy the overall perspectives of a person in life when not managed properly. Personal dreams can never be separated to the real aspirations of a person since all of it can never be created without the unconscious mind. Dreams have strong connection to all of the desires and emotions of a person that are very significant in the process of activating the unconscious mind while sleeping. All these things simply explain the fact that a human brain is still functioning even if its possessor is already sleeping. The unconscious mind encourages a person to fantasize and to think of the future even while sleeping. The real aspirations of all people in this world connect personal dreams into the reality. It is wrong to say that dreams are the exact opposite of the reality. It is because sometimes, dreams make all things in the reality more interesting, enjoyable and achievable for everyone. People should not hesitate to ask for the assistance of a psychotherapist while aiming to understand the real meaning of their dreams more effectively. Chapter 3: Be Accountable Personal dreams can really affect the perspectives of a person in life. Such things need to be managed properly at all times to make sure that each of its examples won’t affect negatively the perspectives in life of a person. Dreams can cause despair and hopeless in daily living of a person if always full of scary stories. These imaginary situations and events can also encourage a person to believe in miracles at all times which is not a good habit. Therefore, people should learn how to analyze and understand the real meaning of their dreams more efficiently as the time goes by to make sure that such things will never be able to make their lives miserable in the end. It is true that wonderful dreams can inspire people to be strong and industrious at all times. But sometimes, dreams can also lead a person into a very miserable life when not properly analyzed and used as inspirations. In other words, people should always be very responsible and open-minded at all times while trying to figure out the real meaning or messages of their personal dreams every day. Dreams need to be analyzed like stories or movies. Such things also contain interesting lessons and guiding principles that people can use to improve the quality of their live more efficiently without spending a lot of effort. To be accountable in the process of analyzing a set of personal dreams at all times can really help a person to be well-disciplined and motivated every day. Such action can really help people to use their personal dreams as their inspirations in life more effectively. Learn How to Justify Personal Dreams Personal dreams have varied meanings and messages to people. Such things need to be justified correctly at all times to make sure that each of its examples will be able to lead a person to the right path towards success. Justifying the meaning of personal dreams can help people to use their dreams as their inspirations in life in a very excellent way. Dreams are excellent sources of reliable guiding principles in life to use while aiming for more success as the time goes by. Such things need to be analyzed correctly at all times to make sure that it won’t affect negatively the lifestyle and personal beliefs of a person when it comes to the real meaning of success. There are so many ways to justify dreams correctly. What matters most in the process of analyzing the real meaning of the personal dreams of a person is the ability to take all things positively. A nightmare can still be considered as an excellent inspiration if there’s an interesting lesson in its story which can be used by an individual as guide in preventing all the scary moments and situations that are present in its flow in the future. To hire an expert psychotherapist is another good way to be more accountable when it comes to the process of analyzing a set of personal dreams. All these actions can help a person to justify personal dreams more efficiently without spending a lot of effort.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... </center Table of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: Accessory Basics Chapter 2: Wii Accessories Chapter 3: Playstation Accessories Chapter 4: Xbox Accessories Chapter 5: Computer Accessories Chapter 6: Where to Get Free Accessories Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Wii Accessories Synopsis The Nintendo Wii is a very popular video game console. If you do not own one, chances are that you likely know at least one person who does. One of the awesome things about the Nintendo Wii is the fact that it encourages movement and activity. It is not like other video game systems that allow a person to sit and only move their thumbs while playing, That is why many parents began getting this console for their children. Since the Wii is motion controlled it has many numerous accessories. Basically, no matter what type of game you are playing, there is an accessory for it. Different types of accessories for the Wii have different purposes. Some games will actually require you to have certain accessories in order to be able to play them. If you do not know much about Wii accessories and would like to learn more, continue reading the next chapter as it will go over different types of Wii accessories and their benefits. Accessories for Nintendo Wii As states before, there are numerous accessories for the Wii. Most of them are designed to enhance a gamers experience or make the game feel more realistic. There are also Wii accessories to make certain activities more convenient such as typing or surfing the web. The following are some different types of accessories and what their purpose and benefits are: Exercise Accessories: The fact that the Wii encourages people to be active is probably one if its best selling points. There are a lot of games for the Wii that are focused on improving the health of the person playing the game. For example, there are many different exercise games for the Wii. These types of games can be entertaining and healthy for the person playing them but you will usually need accessories to be able to play them. These accessories may be a bit expensive but it is well worth the investment. This is especially true if you are someone who is not really in shaoe and play a lot of video games anyways. You might as well better your health while you do what you love, right? Shooting Accessories: There is a large amount of people who enjoy games that are centered on warfare and shooting. These games can be quite entertaining on their own, but with certain accessories they can become amazing. Using shooting accessories for the Wii can make a gamer feel like they are actually living the experience. There are different types of wireless guns you can get for the Wii. Some of them even have motors In them that make them vibrate so when you pull the trigger it feels like you have actually fired a weapon. These accessories come in different forms as well. For example, different games will have different weapons, you may play some with a shotgun and you may use a pistol in another. You need to make sure that your accessories will be compatible with your game before purchasing them. Sports Accessories: As mentioned before, a large amount of Wii games focus on making a person move so there are a great deal of sports games for the Wii. You will need different accessories when you switch from one sport to the other. There is a Wii accessory for just about any sport you can think of. You can play most of these games without paying for the extra accessories but they will not be as entertaining. Think of how cool it would be being able to fish from your living room while using a rod that makes the entire experience feel real. Other games like tennis and golf can also be made much more entertaining with the use of gaming accessories. There is even a baseball bat you can use when playing certain sports games on the Wii. There are also accessories for the Wii that are not used for actual game play. The following are a couple examples of these types of accessories: Style: Some people like their consoles to be stylish. Wii has several accessories that can accommodate their needs. There are many different cases and covers for controllers that come in different colors and designs. This offers gamers the ability to personalize their Wii’s. Cleaning: You will need to clean your games from time to time. It is important that you use the correct type of cleaner while cleaning your games. Only use products that are designed to clean games. Many people make the mistake of using things that are not designed to clean games and end up damaging their games, do not be one of these people. No matter what your needs are interest are, there is sure to be a Wii accessory that will give you exactly what you desire. Remember, gaming accessories are the secret to unlocking the full potential of a video game. Chapter 3: Playstation Accessories Synopsis Playstation also offers a wide array of accessories for their consoles. Most of these accessories are designed to make a gamer’s experience more intense and full of excitement and entertainment. There are also Playstation accessories that are meant to make transportation and use of the console more convenient. Serious gamers know that there is much more to gaming then owning a gaming system. If you want to unlock the full potential of a Playstation, you must purchase certain accessories. Do not be a fool and fall for knock off accessories either. These accessories will often times be over priced and be low quality items. The following chapter will provide you with some information on Playstation accessories and why they are important for a proper gaming experience. Accessories for Playstation There is a massive number of different accessories that are available for Playstations. Each one has a different purpose and a different set of benefits that it can offer. The following are a few examples of the different types of accessories you can get for a Playstation and the benefits of the accessory. Controllers: It is important that you find the right controller for your type of game. Certain controllers come with different modes. These modes can alter the way that a controller reacts. For example, you can have a certain mode set up for racing and a different mode set up for first person shooter games. You will likely have the sensitivity much higher on the shooting mode than you would on the racing mode. This allows the player to fine tune their controller for their experience while still offering the convenience of being able to switch to other games and change their controller settings rapidly. Another thing to look into is whether you want a wired or a wireless controller. Both have their own set of benefits. For example, wireless controllers do not restrict where a person can go with their controller but they constantly need new batteries. On the other hand, wired controllers restrict where you can take the controller but never need batteries. Transportation: There may come a time that you will need to transport your Playstation. It is important to make sure that you have the right accessories while moving your Playstation. There are carrying cases that are designed specifically for the use of carrying around Playstations. They are designed with compartments that securely hold your Playstation. They are also designed with special padding that keeps your Playstation from being damaged if it gets bumped by something else during transport. If you are a person who is constantly transporting your Playstation, you should seriously think about getting one of these cases. It is much cheaper to buy a transportation case compared to buying a whole new Playstation. Playstation Move: Playstation move is an accessory for Playstation that allows games to be played with motion. This makes the gaming experience feel more realistic and enjoyable, just as with the Wii. These accessories are wireless and should be handled with care. If they are constantly dropped or smacked into things they will not work properly for very long. They can be quite pricey as well so take care of them! Cameras: Some people choose to use their Playstation for more than just gaming. For example, some people use Playstation’s online network to communicate with family and friends. This experience can be made even more enjoyable by using a camera. This will allow whoever you are speaking with to be able to see you while you talk to them. Some people may live so far away that this is the only type of face to face conversation that is possible for them. No matter what you are looking for, Playstation has an accessory that will fit your needs. Boost your gaming experience to its full potential and begin collecting the accessories that you need for the best gaming experience possible.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table of Contents Foreword Chapter 1: How A Realtor Can Help You. Chapter 2: What Services Is Your Realtor Offering Chapter 3: Which Realtor Is Right For You Chapter 4: Choosing A Trusted Realtor Chapter 5: Lookout For Scam Realtors Chapter 6: How To Protect Yourself From Sneaky Realtors Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: What Services Is Your Realtor Offering Ideally there are several different services that a realtor will offer to the client. Most of these services are quite comprehensive and definitely worth the fees that are charged. The following are some of the services usually extended to the client when the services of a realtor are engaged: One of the more important aspects of the realtor’s service is to provide the client with valuable advice on how to make the property as saleable as possible. Giving the client tips and pointing out things that should be addressed is something that is quite a common service to extend. Points that are likely to be noticed by customers, is something the realtor will be experienced enough to identify. Within the services of a realtor, there is also the benefit of being able to ask and have answered all questions and concerns on anything regarding the property. Both from a legal point of view and from a technical point of view a good realtor is able to give profound advice to the client. Most realtors are also able to help the client find the necessary assistance to address any problems regarding the overall physical conditions of the property. Having all the necessary contact particulars of all the relevant parties that are usually needed for both major and minor jobs on the property is something to be expected as part of the services of a realtor. Realtors are also expected to help draw up all the legal documents that may be required during any transaction that may take place. The relevant payments and legal notations will also be handled by the realtor, thus leaving the client with relatively little else, but to just literally, sign on the dotted line. Some realtors are also able to extend information on financing availability and the various payments that should be considered if the client if considering making an offer. Chapter 3: Which Realtor Is Right For You Most realtors are engaged based on the recommendations from friends, family and some media tools where the realtor advertised his or her services. For the more discerning individual, hiring just anyone would not be a suitable solution for them thus the need to be able to identify the best suited realtor for the individual’s interests. The following are some of the points to look into when trying to identify the realtor who would best suit the interests of the client: As the purchasing of a property or the selling of one is probably the most important decision a person will ever have to make having the services of a reliable realtor at hand would be most beneficial. The sheer enormity the financing effects have on this type of transaction requires the careful consideration of those involved. A good realtor is able to listen carefully to the wants and needs of the client and then work according to this information garnered. Using the information provided by the client the realtor should be able to produce results according to what has been expressed and is expected. Failing to seriously take into consideration what the client desired would cause a lot of miscommunication and waste of effort and time. Ensuring the honestly of the realtor is also something to consider when making the choice for a suitable representative. This information can be gotten from previous clients as they would only be too willing to divulge information on the qualities in the realtor that they found to be pleasing. One way to narrow down the choice of acquiring a suitable realtor would be to avoid taking on the services of realtors, who are willing to work for both the buyer and the seller. The simple matter of conflicting interests would already present a very visible problem, making this a poor choice indeed.

Salespage Snapshot: >>> Click Here To View Full Sales Page... Table of Contents Foreword Chapter 1 Abundance Basics Chapter 2 Decide How Much You Need Chapter 3 What Do You Need To Bring Wealth? Chapter 4 Combine Experiences and Emotions Chapter 5 Use Imagery Chapter 6 Transform Your Surroundings Chapter 7 Trust In the Universe Chapter 8 Use Affirmations Sample Content Preview Chapter 2: Decide How Much You Need Synopsis It is important in life for a person to know exactly what it is that they wish to obtain or exactly what goals they would like to accomplish. The same goes for obtaining an abundance of finances. If you wander down the path of success blind and without aim you are sure to get lost. That is why it is important to have specific goals in place that will act as your guide while you take the journey towards success. Before you make any decisions on exactly how much you need, it is advised that you read the following chapter because it contains valuable information that will greatly help you. Keep in mind, it is important to determine how much you need rather than how much you want. Determine How Much You Need When you are making a plan for financial success, it is important that you determine exactly how much finances you need to be pulling in. I do not mean a general ball park figure, I mean an exact number. You can figure this number out by listing down all of your expenses as well as giving yourself some breathing room for unexpected situations that may occur. You need to picture yourself in the future, what do you see? In order for you to accomplish what you see in this vision, it is important that you set financial goals because they will serve as your motivators. You may want to start with smaller goals as this will help you build your self-confidence in the long run and this will make the harder goals much easier. Add Up The Bills: The first and probably most important step to creating a financial abundance is to figure out what your monthly expenses are. It will be impossible to build wealth if you are spending more money on expenses than you are bringing in. No matter if you are a manager for a business or are self-employed, all expenses need to be accounted for, down to the paper clips and staples. This will help you determine if your current set of circumstances will benefit or hinder your journey to financial abundance. Are You Earning Enough? One question that you are going to ask yourself, whether you want to hear the answer or not, is am I making enough money? Although it may be hard, if you are not making enough money, you may have to give some things up in life for a short period of time. Even those who are not in financial strain should look over their daily lives and think of the things that they do not really need. You will be surprised by how much of a difference you can make by choosing to buy a 99 cent coffee in the morning rather than a $5.99 Starbucks coffee. If you analyze your current set of financial circumstances and come to the realization that you are not making enough money, it is definitely time to do something about it! What Do You Need The Finances for? Another important question you must ask yourself is, what do I plan on doing with my finances. Having a plan for what you will use your finances for will motivate you as well as set guidelines for what you purchase. For instance, if you know that you have important business expenses coming up or maybe even a vacation to Hawaii, you will be more likely to be responsible with your spending which will lead to you creating a financial abundance. It is also very important to prioritize. You must take care of life’s essentials before worrying about having extravagant things like jet skis and sports cars. It is also advised that you create a spreadsheet or some other type of visual reference to track your expenses and earnings. It is easy to forget about something that you cannot see so it is important that you keep this spreadsheet in a location where you will see it multiple times throughout the day. The process of determining how much cash you need should not be taken lightly or rushed. It is a very serious step in the process of creating a financial abundance. Keep in mind the tips from this chapter and begin practicing these methods and you should start to see improvements in no time. Chapter 3: What Do You Need To Bring Wealth Synopsis You may be asking yourself, what exactly do I need in order to obtain wealth. The answer to this question varies from person to person. The answer will depend first on what you as an individual sees as wealth and then on the individual circumstances of your life. For example, if you were born into a rich family, chances are that you are looking for more money but rather a wealth of happiness or love. On the other hand, if you are like most of us who scrape by check to check, then your idea of more wealth would likely be more money. In the process of deciding what you need in order to gain wealth it is very important to determine what you define wealth as. What Will You Need? There are various different things that can help a person obtain a financial abundance. Some of these may have to do with the persons mentality or attitude while others may have to do with surroundings and physical objects. The most important things you will need come from yourself though. This is good news because you will not have to spend money to utilize them. A few examples of the things inside yourself that you need to bring forward are: Determination: Many people will list determination as one of their skills but when it comes down to hard times they usually do not see the problem all the way through. They may find the easy way out or give up completely, either way the task does not get completed correctly. These are not traits of a person who is determined to do something. Someone who is truly determined will fight to get what they desire, no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired they are, and no matter what others say. This is why people with this trait tend to excel from the rest. They do not let challenges stand in the way of their dreams and goals and they couldn’t really care less about what others have to say about their aspirations. If you truly want to build a financial abundance, strengthening your determination is a great place to start Will Power: Will power is very important when it comes to any type of financial situation. You must have the power within yourself to avoid life’s daily temptations. This will be easier if you constantly keep in mind the goal you are working towards which would be building a financial abundance. Responsibility: When it comes down to it, no one is responsible for your life besides you. If you are not happy with the set of circumstance you are currently dealing with, you are the only one who can change it. Do not blame others for not having the fortune that you feel you deserve because this will slow the entire process of building your financial abundance. Those who look at problems and take responsibility for them see the light at the end of the tunnel because they are able to see solutions instead of someone else to blame. There are many other personal traits that you can strengthen and apply to aid you on your journey to financial wealth but now we will begin to focus on other types of things that will help you build a financial abundance. Personal Accountants: Personal accountant can be very useful. Their purpose is to track all of your expenses and earnings. They can also be asked for expert advice about how you can further enlarge your earning potential. Personal accountants can also serve as a safety net when making purchases because you can ask them if the purchase fits your goals for your finances as well as your current financial situation. Stock Brokers: Stocks can be a quick and exciting way of making large amounts of cash. However, in order to make money in the stocks you must first spend money. There are dangers that come with the stock market. There is no guarantee that you will make a profit or that you will even make your money back, Don’t be frightened, there are measures you can take to better your chances of being successful in the stock market. The first safety measure would of course be to do extensive research on any product before you invest in it. Do not fall for pitches because they are designed to sell the product to you. Instead do your own research and make your own decisions. Another safety measure that can help you a lot is a stock broker. Stock brokers spend their entire working day trading stocks and offering advice to their clients. When it comes to experience, a stock broker is hard to beat. Also, they will most likely know tips and tricks that the general public is not even aware of.