Table of Contents
Table of Contents …. 3
Tip #1: Set the Scene ….. 6
Tip #2: Look Around You …… 8
Tip #3: Connect to Love …… 10
Tip #4: Let Your Guard Down ….. 13
Tip #5: Become An Attentive Listener …… 15
Tip #6: Pay Attention to Body Language .. 17
Tip #7: Listen To Your Instincts .. 20
Tip #8: Put Yourself First ….. 22
Tip #9: Don’t Over-Research …… 24
Tip #10: Keep It In Present .. 26
Final Words …. 27
Resources …… 28
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Tip #4: Let Your Guard Down
For years, women have been told that men love a good chase and that overly aggressive women aren’t likely to find someone that will take them seriously.
Forget everything you’ve ever heard because in today’s world, the playing field has been levelled.
Men love being chased just as much as women do and in many cases, men will feel far more at ease with a woman who isn’t afraid of showing him that she’s interested.
In fact, imagine how much easier it will be to get to know someone you’re attracted to if they know they’re not wasting their time and that you’re serious about connecting with them on a deeper level.
Playing coy isn’t always the best strategy when it comes to great dates that lead to everlasting relationships. Playing “hard to get” could make you come across as cold, distant and disinterested. It could also make him feel uncomfortable and create an awkward vibe that just doesn’t need to be there.
So, if you’re interested in him, don’t be afraid to show it. Nurture the conversation with body language that lets him know you’re genuinely interested in him.
Sure, if he cracks a joke that you don’t funny, you don’t have to laugh. You don’t want to come across as phony! That’s not your style, right?
Instead, don’t be afraid to banter, to show off your sense of humor and tease each other affectionately. It’s a great way to break down those walls and get over the nervousness that comes from new relationships.
Top 10 Dating Tips for Women: Special Report 15 Tip #5: Become An Attentive Listener
Over sharing happens to the best of us. We get nervous and feel awkward and suddenly we’re dealing with a serious case of word vomit.
It’s easy to lead the conversation to a point where we’re not tuned in to what someone else is trying to say, so it’s important to make sure you’re listening just as much as you’re sharing. You also should take your time answering questions that he may have for you. Not only will your responses be more thoughtful and genuine, but if you aren’t too quick to blurt something out, you’ll be able to avoid saying something you regret.
Plus, becoming an attentive listener is a great way to let him know that you’re truly interested in getting to know him. The more
questions you ask, and the more often you direct conversations away from talking too much about yourself, the easier the conversation will flow.
At the same time, you want to be careful not to fire a dozen questions at him too quickly. Make sure he’s comfortable answering questions and avoid going anywhere near the toopersonal zone until you’ve had a chance to get to know each other and are aware of one another’s comfort zones.
Instead, keep conversation focused on interests, hobbies and passions. Avoid talking about past relationships; at least in the beginning.
Those deeper conversations can happen later once you’ve gotten off on the right foot and you’ve determined there’s a level of compatibility worthy of another date.
Tip #6: Pay Attention to Body Language
Body language speaks louder than words ever could. If you want to know what he’s feeling, and whether he’s genuinely interested in getting to know beyond sexual attraction, you’ll want to pay close attention to where his gaze rests and whether he leans in when he speaks to you.
Research has shown that when someone is truly attracted to another they often allow their gaze to linger on the person’s face that they’re talking to, rather than scan their body. And remember, this goes both ways.
Your own body language will tell your date whether you’re interested in him or not so if you want to show him you’re attracted, let your body language tell the story.
Here are a few tips:
Make Eye Contact:
Not only is this a sign of respect, but it tells him that you’re interested in what he has to say. Posture:
Your posture can indicate that you’re tired or bored just as much as it can tell him you’re really feeling a connection. Slouching indicates a lack of energy and interest so sit up straight or lean in to his direction.
It’s the easiest way to let someone know you’re interested in them and it’s simply a universal sign of happiness. It’s also a great way to flirt without going overboard.
Let your body language represent your interest or connection in someone and boost the quality of your dates up by making it clear that you’re having a great time and are thoroughly enjoying your time together.
Tip #7: Listen To Your Instincts
It’s easy to get excited about a date and share your experiences with friends and family to get feedback or validation that there might be something worthy of perusing.
The problem comes when you end up misadvised, or you follow the advice from someone who may not have your best interests at heart.
Or perhaps they simply don’t know the person you’re dating and are basing their opinions on their own past dating failures or expectations.
It’s important that you follow your own instincts (and heart!) when it comes to dating. If the person makes you feel comfortable and you are finding yourself having a great time, don’t let anyone discourage you from seeing it through.
You know yourself better than anyone, and so if you pay attention to what your gut is telling you, and you go into every date with an open heart and mind, you’ll never be misled.
Tip #8: Put Yourself First
A lot of us are fearful of hurting someone’s feelings, especially when it comes to rejection.
The truth is, you owe it to yourself to value your time and energy and so if you aren’t feeling a connection, don’t let someone else’s feelings, or your concern that he’ll be discouraged, get in the way of your own feelings.
Always do what’s best for yourself first.
Let him down gently, but firmly. You are looking for love and every date you go out on takes up a lot of mental and emotional energy so you need to keep those tanks filled.
Wasting time on dates that you know aren’t going to lead anywhere are not only robbing you of finding true love, but it’s also not fair to the person you’re spending time with. It’s easy to lead someone on out of fear of causing them pain but in the end, he will respect your honesty because it sets him free so he can continue his journey to finding his perfect match. Don’t play games.
Tip #9: Don’t Over-Research
While it’s important to take measures to ensure your safety when going out on dates, you don’t want to do so much research that there’s little left to learn about someone you’re potentially interested in.
Over-researching can also lead to pre-judging. Don’t end up with a tainted viewpoint simply because you’ve uncovered bits and pieces about someone without knowing his entire story.
Give him a fair chance! Unless you’ve uncovered things about him that cause you to feel genuinely concerned, or may put your safety in harm’s way, leave it up for discovery as you get to know him. A little mystery can add a lot of excitement to a new relationship.
And finally, don’t ask your friends to tell you everything they know about him! If you’re being set up by a friend, trust their judgement and leave it at that. Learn for yourself how you feel about him and let the magic happen organically.Other Details
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