Table Of Contents
Chapter 1: Introduction
Chapter 2: Importance Of A Healthy Relationship
Chapter 3: Make Sure You Understand Honestly What The Problems Are
Chapter 4: Develop Your Communication Skills
Chapter 5: Learn How To Have A Date Night
Chapter 6: Change Your Negative Mindset
Chapter 7: Remember Why You Fell In Love
Chapter 8: Understand You Can Only Change Yourself
Chapter 9: Learn How To Be Considerate
Seek Professional Help If Needed
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Remember Why You Fell In Love
Challenges can either make or break your relationship. If you feel like there is no more point to hold on, you better think twice. Don’t make any decision when you are angry because you will surely regret it in the end. If you both can’t seem to deal with your relationship anymore, why don’t you spend time far away from each other for a while? This way, you will be able to realize your mistakes and know if you still want your partner in your life.
Travel Back In Time
The first way to know if your relationship is still worth saving is through remembering the first time you saw your partner and when you fell in love with him/her. By travelling back in time, there is a great tendency for you to rekindle the love you feel for each other. You will also be able to remember the happy and sad times you have shared and how you were able to get through them.
Apart from that, you should also figure out why you fell in love with your partner. Actually, this will give you confirmation if you still have to hold on and try once again. Did you fell in love with him/her because of his/her positive attributes, which you think you can never find in anyone anymore? Did he/she stand up for you at all costs even though his/her life or reputation would be at stake? Did you fall in love with him/her because he/she made you a better person and made you realize that you are special? Did he/she made you feel happier?
Upon figuring out the answers to these questions, your heart will tell you what the next course of action is to take. However, don’t forget to use your mind because it will reprimand your heart the moment it goes out of control.
Understand You Can Only Change Yourself
Did you know that the relationship itself is not the problem, but the people who are in the relationship? This is the reason why you have to figure out what’s wrong in you and change it. This way, you will be able to save your relationship that is on the verge of falling down.
Changing yourself is a self-help process. Thus, it is something which others can’t do for you. It is more of a choice, decision and hard work. However, this is not something that you can do over night; it requires time, patience and temperance. To achieve this, you need to come to terms with yourself and admit your mistakes. To put it simply, you need to forget about your pride by sending it to hell.
Changing yourself is such a difficult process, as you have to think a hundred times before you make any moves. Thus, you will feel like you are confined in a cage because you are afraid that you might do the same mistakes again. Mind you, this should not be the case. Just like other processes, changing yourself is something that must be done one step at a time. Don’t force yourself because it could lead to self-destruction.
In your attempt to change yourself, you can also ask for help from the people who love you such as your friends, family or partner. Though they can’t change you, they can help you. Love moves in mysterious ways, as they say. Also, don’t forget to pray because it is the best tool that will help you dramatically transform your entire being. In addition, don’t forget that the only one who can heal your heart is the one who made it.
Learn How To Be Considerate
Nobody’s perfect and all people make mistakes. Don’t forget that human beings are sinners by nature. In a relationship, you are not always right and your partner is not always wrong. Both of you are responsible in one way or another if any problem or conflict arises. So, why be considerate of each other? This is a sign of being humble.
What It Means To Be Considerate
If you don’t want your relationship to break into pieces or to turn into ashes sooner or later, you need to be understanding through being considerate. But what does it really mean to be considerate? Does this relate to being a martyr? For your information, being considerate means accepting excuses and learning to say “it’s okay”, especially when your partner has made an unintentional mistake. On the other hand, being a martyr means allowing your partner to abuse you by intentionally doing mistakes over and over again. Is it clear now?
Why Do You have to be Considerate?
Now, the million dollar question is, why do you have to be considerate? The answer to this question is simple—to save your relationship. In order to ensure that it will stand the test of time, a relationship needs two people working hard together. By being considerate, you are not giving your partner a chance to commit a mistake again, but giving your relationship a second chance.
What is great about being considerate is that you will be able to earn the level of consideration you have given to your partner in due time the moment you need it. As before mentioned, human beings are sinners by nature. Therefore, somewhere in time, you will surely make a mistake.
But wait. What if your partner cheated on you? Do you still have to be considerate? Well, this depends on the situation. Of course, you have to give him/her a chance to explain. After that, the rest will be history. It’s only you who can decide for yourself because you are the one in the relationship. Just make sure that any choice you make will not make you regret or haunt you for the rest of your life.Other Details
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